For Father's Day, let's make dads part of prenatal care. It's good for parents and babies
I celebrated my first Father’s Day as a dad in 2013.
My daughter was 5 months old and, like many fathers in the first year, I was a
mix of exhausted, overjoyed and at least occasionally terrified.
I had to learn a lot about pregnancy and infancy,
from the basics of nutrition during pregnancy to some of the unexpected health
issues that a child might face, in a relatively short time. When my wife and I
were expecting our first child, I quickly found that a lot of the educational
resources, such as the mobile apps I downloaded, were designed almost
exclusively for the pregnant mother and didn’t seem to consider the possibility
that an expectant father might be the user of the app. This is a missed
opportunity to engage dads more effectively.
But this is bigger than just pregnancy apps. The
entire prenatal care landscape is crafted for moms. It’s obvious why. Pregnancy
outcomes in the United States continue to rank among the worst in the developed
world, with 5.8 infant deaths per 1,000 live births and 17.2 maternal deaths
per 100,000 live births. This is why improving pregnancy outcomes is a top
public health priority. But we cannot forget that men — and partners of any
gender to a pregnant person — play a very important role in improving health
for all.
In his book, “Do Fathers Matter? What Science Is
Telling Us About the Parent We’ve Overlooked,” Paul Raeburn urges readers to
consider what changes occur in men when they are “expecting,” how fathers
affect their children’s language development, and the risks and rewards of
being an older-than-average father at the time the child is born. He confirms
not just that fathers matter, but that they matter a lot.
What’s more, researchers have found that fathers who
were involved with their partners during pregnancy reduced the risk that the
children would die in the first year of life. Is there any stronger motivator
for a new parent?
But despite the decades of research that shows men
can improve pregnancy outcomes, many men continue to feel invisible or
unwelcome. Traditional maternal-child health promotion tends to focus
exclusively on pregnant women, almost entirely leaving men outside of a defined
role in prenatal care, pregnancy outcomes and overall family health.
But do men want to be involved in prenatal health?
My research identified men’s perceived barriers, such as time constraints,
financial burdens and an unclear role. Despite these very real blockades for
male partners from all walks of life, research shows men do believe it is
important to be involved in pregnancy health — particularly planning for the
financial changes that come with a child.
There are two key things to consider in order to get
more men involved. The first is to think about the kind of information that
fathers might be looking for, as well as how to adjust content to make it
relevant to men. For example, information about breastfeeding might go beyond
the health benefits of breastfeeding to highlight what men can do to support
the mother and baby while breastfeeding.
The second is to consider design and style. If most
content focused on mothers tends to have a similar visual style, such as
smiling pregnant women or babies, then information developed specifically for
fathers might take a different approach to make it clear that the content was
developed with fathers in mind from the start.
These days, fathers are used to getting personalized
content on every topic from the serious to the entertaining to the mundane. We
need to better engage fathers around prenatal health — with customized
information and tools that might live on their phones. It is one of the best
ways to foster engaged fathers that can help improve the health of mothers and
babies. Not just on Father’s Day, but every day.